13 Nov 2014 Sometimes I feel like a four-year-old—”What's that? . My husband is 12 years older than me (I'm 26 now), and I really wasn't sure if I wanted to go on a first date with him for that very . I am dating a 43 years old man now. . My husband is 14 years older; we were 20 and 34 when we met 8 years ago.